What is a Transition Life Coach and why would I call myself one as a CIS Woman?
Updated: Feb 4
I'm Emma Leviathan and yes, I called myself a Transition Life Coach on my website. As a CIS Woman, I cannot fully understand what it takes to transition as a Transgender person, but I can empathize and I can offer support during an incredible journey for people who have no one who will understand.
As a Dominatrix that specializes in Cuckold and Feminization, a curious trend started happening to me. More and more I started to get calls on my adult websites by Transgender Women who just wanted to chat about their transition rather than the run-of-the-mill porn scripts that I was used to. These sessions quickly became my favorite and they made me feel good as if I was in some way helping. Most of the women calling just wanted someone to talk to and someone to be there as a support system. They needed someone who wouldn't judge but would also give their non-medical honest opinion.
As an Online SexWorker, many people don't like me because of what I do and who I am, so I understand not fitting in. I also understand the difference between a fetish and a reality. I know that being transgender is not a fetish and I can easily tell the difference between someone who is genuine and someone who is not because of my experience in kink.
When these wonderful Transgender Women started to contact me I really felt as though I could help. I felt that I could be a friend that didn't judge, I could give my opinion but remain supportive, and serve as an outsider looking in. Sometimes we can all get stuck in an echo chamber which prevents us from seeing what the rest of the world thinks of us. Although it is important to be your genuine self, sometimes too much support can give us a false sense of reality, which can be awful when shattered. I give a safe space of understanding human interactions and building confidence in unpleasant situations while helping transgender individuals cope with community interactions.
There are so many things we can do together that help ease some of the stress of transition. We could shop together, do our make-up, talk about body changes, talk about sex, and other things that help create an easier transition journey. A genuine girlfriend experience.
As a Dominatrix, I have a strict code of never revealing anything about my clients to anyone and I think that is comforting too. I'm not an expert, a therapist, counselor, or any of those professional titles. I'm just a CIS Woman who cares and understands the need to be one of the girls because I have a need to be one of the girls myself.
If you do need professional help, I urge you to seek a professional. If you are feeling suicidal, please don't hesitate to get help.
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